Menyampaikan Speech memang susah-susah gampang. Namun jika dilatih berulang kali pasti bisa. Sebaiknya naskah Speech jangan dihapal. Cukup ingat beberapa poin yang akan disampaikan yakni Addressing, Greetings, Opening, Body, Clossing kemudian Thanking. Berikut ini saya ingin share salah satu naskah Speech yang pernah saya sampaikan di UNPAS Senin, 21 April 2014.
"Selfies Are More Dangerous Than You Think!"
Dear Mr.
Amin,
And all my
friends..
I would like
to thanks to you, for giving me a time to speak here.
LADIES AND GENTELMAN ..
Today, I’ve read the story about
Danny Bowman. The 19 years old teenager that
always spend 10 hours a day taking up
200 photos of himself on his iPhone. Then He dropped out of school, stay
in his room for six months to capture
the perfect self-portrait. He want to be Leonardo Di Caprio on selfie picture,
but he did not succeed. And also worried
of bullying experience. Finally, he
became so depressed that overdose selfie picture. So today I want to talk here
about Selfies Are More Dangerous Than
You Think!
LADIES AND GENTELMAN ..
Everyday, I scroll the my Facebook’s newsfeed. And I found more than 50 selfies photograph. Then I open my Instagram, again I saw more
than 100 selfies picture every single day. The photograph showing various
poses. Namely “duck face”, “Trick of Light”, “Perfect Body”, “Best Moment
Background”, and “Selfie on The Mirror”.
Have you ever seen “the duck
face”?
Duck face is popular expression in social
media. They ussualy show their pursed
lips, seems like a duck face. This expression is mostly done by teenagers. The goal is to
impress the cute and adorable photos. If you have ever seen the special lighting effect in
photograph. This effect make the photos more bright and soft. The trick of light effects can make the images better and artistic. Most
people who has dark skin like to do
this. “Perfect Body”, it is also often performed selfie for a man who has muscle shape and six pack,
or women who want to show off her breasts and bottom. If you likes to
do it, becarefull. Selfie Pose in front of the mirror can observe posture and the best
angel. Most people do this at
home or use a large mirror in public restrooms.
LADIES AND GENTELMAN ..
We can say this phenomenon, Body
Dysmorphic Disorder or BDD.
BDD is since the rise of camera phones have a
compulsion to repeatedly take selfies. Selfies "as a serious mental health
problem". According to psychologist Salma
Prabhu, The goal of Selfies is to show how great he is, but it could be aimed
wants to be noticed. Selfie can turn someone into an ambitious person who has
an unhealthy obsession.
According to psychiatrist Dr.
David Veal, Selfie not a vanity issue. It's a mental health one
which has an extremely high suicide rate. Technology addiction and Body
Dysmorphic Disorder — a chronic mental health condition in which the sufferer
obsesses over perceived flaws with their body.
LADIES AND GENTELMAN ..
Now let me show you, how
this selfie-phenomenon contribute bad
impact to the social life, base on case study and research.Based on research Academy Facial
Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery American (AAFPRS), Photo- selfie that encourage high interest of
people to do plastic surgery. Because, they want to look perfect in every
photograph. If it can be likened, plastic surgery is a ‘photoshop’ in the real world. The survey involved 2,700 plastic surgeons
who are members AAFPRS. Mostly, the patient looks reasonable to improve
performance in social media. In 2013,
a sharp nose demand increase 10
percent. Meanwhile, hair transplants
increase 7 percent and
demand for eyelid increased 6 percent. Besides selfie,
bullying became one of the driving plastic surgery. They want to look beautiful or handsome in
front of the opponent's chat.
A study titled "Tagger's
Delight? Disclosure and liking behaviour in Facebook: the effects of sharing
photographs amongst multiple known social circles". From three business
schools in Europe found that people who post more selfies have more shallow
relationships with people. Professors asked 508 Facebook users with an average
age of 24 to rank how close they felt to friends, coworkers and relatives who
also happened to be on the site. Then, they compared that data to the number of
selfies the test subjects had posted. The
conclusion? : "Increased frequency
of sharing photographs of the self, regardless of the type of target sharing
the photographs, is related to a decrease in intimacy in personal
relationships”.
According to Birmingham Business
School professor and lead author Dr. David Houghton, "People, other than
very close friends and relatives, don't seem to relate well to those who
constantly share photos of themselves. It's worth remembering that the
information we post to our 'friends' on Facebook, actually gets viewed by lots
of different categories of people: partners; friends; family; colleagues and
acquaintances; and each group seems to take a different view of the information
shared."
LADIES AND GENTELMAN ..
That in moderation, selfies are a feel-good and often creative way, particularly
for teens, to chronicle their lives and emotions and express their
personalities. But, narcissistic on
sefies is correlated with a decrease in the intimacy of
personal relationships.
No more virtual bullying, no more Body Dysmorphic Disorder, no more the
next “Danny Bowman”.
Thankyou
